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Dating strategist for high-achieving women who are ready to enjoy dating again & find their person without compromising.

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Find Your Perfect Match Without Compromising Your Standards

Stop giving people a chance just because "there's nothing wrong with them"

Learn how to decode dating profiles, filter out the wrong matches, and confidently pick partners... so you can actually enjoy dating instead of dreading it.

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you're saying...

"DATING SUCKS"

But what you really mean is: this isn’t working

You’re putting yourself out there because you want something real. Marriage. Partnership. A future. But it’s 11 PM on a Tuesday and you’re closing the apps again, exhausted. Wondering if this is all just a waste of time and energy. 

Then you’re back on the next day, because what other option is there? 

The truth is, dating doesn’t have to be this draining. You just need a better strategy.

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You’re Matching, But Not With Anyone You’d Actually Date

You’re swiping. You’re matching. But the conversations feel forced, misaligned, or just plain exhausting. Instead of the fun, natural connection you’re craving. And now you’re starting to wonder if your person is even out there.

You’re Wondering If You Need to Lower Your Standards

You’ve done the work. You know what you want. But after so many dead-end matches, you’re starting to question whether emotional maturity, clear communication, and consistency are too much to ask.
(Spoiler: They’re not.)

Dating Feels Like a Second Job, Without the Payoff

You’re proud of the life you’ve built, but dating feels like it takes more than it gives. You’re over chasing, overthinking, and overextending yourself for people who don’t even show up.

Here’s What’s Really Going On

There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re just leaving dating up to chance instead of using a strategy that works. Your profile should do the filtering for you, so you can spend less time, attract better matches, and actually enjoy dating. The way it should be.

YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF...

Your New Approach To Dating

with my help

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hey,

I’m Rachel, Your Dating Strategist

I know exactly how you feel because I’ve been there. I used to think dating was a numbers game. Match with as many people as possible, go on a bunch of dates, and eventually meet someone you click with and hope it works out.

But after years of dodging narcissists, giving “nice guys” a chance, and getting my heart broken more than once… despite being smart, successful, and having my life together (with the therapy bills to prove it). I started wondering if I was the problem. Was I asking for too much? Was my person even out there?

What I eventually realized was this: the problem wasn’t ME. It was how I was showing up, who I was giving a chance, and the subtle signs I was missing along the way.

So I stopped guessing and built a system. I made my profile do the filtering for me. I learned how to decode what men are really signaling in their profiles, how to show up in a way that attracted the kind of partner I actually wanted, and how to spot real compatibility early.

The result? I met my amazing partner in just 3 dates, and I genuinely enjoyed the process, even with the ones who didn’t make the cut.

Now I teach ambitious women like you how to do the same, without compromising who you are or what you want.

Book Your Strategy Session

Get clarity, confidence, and a personalized plan to transform your dating life

let's make dating fun again

STRATEGY SESSION

$247

90 minutes of personalized strategy

Here's what you'll walk away with:

  • Clarity on who you're looking for and exactly what to look for in dating profiles to filter out the right people

  • Confidence in your ability to pick the right matches so your valuable time isn't wasted and you actually enjoy dating again.

  • A personalized strategy for how to message and engage with matches that actually convert to meaningful dates

Perfect if you're: Actively on dating apps, looking for a serious relationship, and tired of wasting time on matches that go nowhere. You're ready to approach dating strategically so you can stop going in blind and start confidently enjoying your dates.

FAQS

  • I'm busy and worried I won't have time. Should I still book?
    YES! This is exactly who this session is designed for. My approach is about making dating MORE efficient, not more time-consuming. You'll learn how to get better results in less time by being strategic about who you engage with from the start. Think of it as an investment that saves you hours of wasted conversations and disappointing dates.
  • I don't have a lot of dating experience. Will this work for me?
    Absolutely! In fact, learning the right approach from the beginning can save you from developing bad habits. Whether you're new to dating apps or you've been on them for years, the principles of strategic vetting and profile optimization work at every level.
  • What if I'm not getting many matches at all?
    This often means your profile is either not optimized for your ideal person, or it's accidentally filtering out the wrong people. During our session, we'll look at your profile strategy and make sure it's attracting the right matches while still being authentically you.
  • How is this different from other dating coaches?
    Most dating advice focuses on changing yourself or "healing" before you can find love. My approach assumes you're already amazing and just need better systems. I treat dating like the strategic process it should be—not an emotional journey where you have to fix yourself first.

Still Have Questions?

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Free Dating Profile Checklist

FREE Dating Profile Checklist

Optimize your profile to attract the type of dates you actually want.


✔️ Know exactly what to say and show to attract high-quality matches

✔️ Create a profile that reflects you and attracts the right partner

✔️ Stand out with confidence and filter out the wrong energy

AFTER YOUR DATING

STRATEGY SESSION

Your profile becomes a filter that attracts the right people

You learn to decode profiles and spot red flags before you get attached

You lead with info that transparently shows men how you want to be treated

You create a sustainable strategy that respects your energy and invites FUN

You create a sustainable strategy that respects your time and energy

THE PROBLEM WITH

MOST DATING ADVICE

Treats dating like an emotional journey instead of a strategic process

You're encouraged to "give people a chance" (even when your gut says no)

It focuses on getting as many matches as possible

It suggests you need to change yourself to accommodate a relationship

Treats dating like an emotional journey instead of a strategic process

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